Dr. Neil Howard Shapiro, 70, a respected physician who practiced in Westchester, NY, and Greenwich, CT, has died. Shapiro was the loving husband of Ilse Gordon, devoted father of Madeline Samit and Lily Ellerin, father-in-law to Benji Samit and Cantor Ben Ellerin, adoring grandfather of Naomi and Valerie Samit and Samuel Ellerin, and brother to Arlene Rubenstein. He died in the comfort of his own home on March 26, lovingly cared for by his family, friend Sherry McVickar, and hospice caregivers.
Born in Brooklyn on Feb. 11, 1950, raised in Queens, Neil was a true New Yorker, even though he resided in Cos Cob, CT for the last 31 years. His degrees are from New York University and The Medical School, Wayne State University, Detroit. Returning to New York, he did his Internship and Residency at Beth Israel Hospital, and then a Fellowship in Gastroenterology at Montefiore Hospital in The Bronx, NY. He began his private practice in Westchester County and admitted patients to United Hospital in Port Chester. After United Hospital closed in 2006, Dr. Shapiro saw patients at White Plains and Greenwich Hospitals. He was supremely committed to his work, a gifted diagnostician, and beloved by his patients, as he took the time to listen with attention and kindness. Westchester Magazine and New York Magazine listed him in their “Best Doctors” issues.
A consummate caregiver, Shapiro was most devoted to raising strong daughters who shared his core values of working hard, treating all people with respect, and conducting oneself by the highest moral standards. He loved hiking, spending time in nature, and staying fit. His passions included history, politics, reading, and especially all forms of music. He and his wife, Greenwich artist Ilse Gordon, frequented many opera performances in New York and worldwide. He loved travel and unexpected adventures.
Learning to sail as an adult, Neil was exhilarated and soothed by the waters of Greenwich Sound, racing the Ideals every Wednesday night. He found camaraderie at the Old Greenwich Yacht Club, and in his last two years took on the position of Vice Commodore, volunteering many hours to assure that the launch service ran smoothly.
Due to the ongoing public health crisis, there will be a community gathering to celebrate Neil’s life once restrictions are lifted. Photographs and memories of Neil are welcomed on his weremember.com page. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Manhattan School of Music, Doctors Without Borders, or any other charity of your preference.
